I went to a lifestyle swingers/sex club with one of my partners, I’ll call him Daniel. I wasn’t sure if I wanted to participate but I wanted to see what it was about. As I was leaving my house he texted me asking if he could bring another girl along and I figured, the more the merrier. I’ll call her Katie.
I picked them up and drove them to the club. Daniel goes to this particular club regularly and when we met a few months ago I had expressed interest.
Katie is a girl he had only met in person that very night. They’d connected online and though she was game about going with us, it was pretty obvious this was not her scene.
The club’s main room sports a dance floor and a bar with water and finger food. We got there early and couples lounged together on couches. After a bit, people started to dance. There were two stripper poles and porn playing on a screen on the wall. Techno beats lit up the place, far too loud for comfort. A woman patron danced on the stripper pole while another tried. And as the night continued the owners raised the music to a painful level, forcing people into the back rooms.
Daniel led us there after my ears bled. First remove clothing and put it in a locker. Then don a towel. No-one clothed is allowed into the back. Two large rooms fill the back space with couches lining the walls. The entire floor of each room is a bed. It reminded me of a room I saw once in the playboy mansion except here there was distressing porn playing on the walls.
Katie, Daniel and I sat on a couch and talked. Couples entered the room/s, got naked and went at it. As time went on there was almost no space on the floors, just naked bodies engaged in their experiences.
There weren’t many threesomes, foursomes and moresomes. There wasn’t any BDSM. What it seemed to be was a lot of monagamous vanilla couples whose kinks were exhbitionism and voyeurism. Almost all the women engaged in their experiences had their eyes closed. Almost all the men, engaged in their experiences, were looking around. When one guy was invited, by a girl’s partner, to spank the girl next to him—his girlfriend opened her eyes, saw and got angry, telling him to stop. When another man tried to touch this same girl she told him not to. I appreciate that she knows what she wants and that consensual sex, touching, and everything in between is a must but… you’re at a sex club, having sex in between two other couples having sex. I don’t think anyone should compromise but I do think that maybe, if that kind of thing bothers you, you should have those conversations with your partner before you get naked in public.
Daniel, Katie and I kept our towels on and watched. Katie spoke openly of how sexual she was and how much she loved sex but she did not want to engage there at all. I get that and I respect it. Talking to her was interesting and I enjoyed it but in the end, it was a night of babysitting for both me and Daniel.
The porn on the walls was quite disturbing. It portrayed women behind walls with only their legs and private business showing. Men either screwed these headless, bodiless women or licked them. It was beyond objectification. These women didn’t even seem to exist except to please men with their groins. It was anything but sexy.
Some of the things I saw and liked:
Next to me on the couch were two couples. One man in the middle of two girls used a hand to pleasure each one at the same time. When they questioned him he said “What? I have two hands, I may as well use them.”
One of the girls eventually got up to make out with another woman on a couch across the way. There were two men with that woman and they both stood aside wearing smiles.
Overall—I’m glad I went, it was another interesting experience. I may try again without babysitting but I have found (in my limited experience) that I enjoy the orgies and another sex club that I used to go to and re-frequented this Halloween better.
But I could definitely see if I were in a vanilla mono relationship and wanted to spice things up, this sex club in particular could do just that.
Episode 1 = the why
Episode 2 = the how
Episode 3 = orgy 1, part 1
Episode 4 = orgy 1, part 2
The Journey of Rain Star© - Written, Produced and Edited By Chloe Adler
This is the Journey of Rain Star - Chloe's alter ego who is on a mission to experience the sensual pleasures of life. Stay tuned for an episode a week and come live vicariously through Rain and her sexploits.