Three Couples and ME = Rain Star! Oh my! --- by Chloe Adler
Sure, sure, it was on my bucket list but I never thought it’d happen. When I first met the male half of Couple X, I was more than surprised that he invited me to join him and two other couples in a hotel room.
I’d never met him or his wife in person (only online) and I was very nervous but the minute I arrived, they put me at ease. The other couples were already there, lounging on a bed talking. For about twenty minutes we chatted and then Couple X suggested we all get naked. That’ll level a playing field, fast! He led me over to his wife who is absolutely gorgeous and we kissed and caressed.
The point of this blog/story is not to go into details of the tryst, you’ve all got porn for that. I don’t need to talk about whose head went where, whose mouth attached to what body part or where the man on left’s leg ended up. But who knows, I may eventually end up going there too…
For now, I want to focus on the experience, the excitement and what surprised me. Sure there was sex, that’s what happens when seven people get naked in a hotel room but for Rain Star it wasn’t about the sex. It’s strange to say that and I acknowledge how strange it is, but it’s true. I found myself watching more than participating and as I tend to do with most everything, I intellectualized it. I watched for patterns over positions and the way each couple treated their mate.
I talked to them. During sex and after.
Two of the couples were all in. Couples X and Y have been married for 14+ years. Couple Y met in college and the husband told me that when he started dating his wife, even though he’d never been a swinger, it was what he wanted. When he asked her about it, she admitted to being an experienced swinger. They were a perfect match from the start. Their journey is now changing. He has discovered a recent interest in men and now considers himself bisexual, surprised that he’s fully attracted to men when he never was before.
Couple X, my couple, have been “swinging” for less than a year. They found themselves at a standstill in their marriage but were still very much in love. They went to couples therapy and talked about opening up their relationship. It’s called ethical non-monogamy which means they have sex with other people either alone or together and but not without the other partner’s consent. They started swinging together and now they have separate dates as well but these dates are for sex, not to foster life partners — they already have life partners, each other! Player X has explained to me that it works because neither of them are jealous people, they want the other person to be happy. He doesn’t even understand jealousy, he said “if someone is secure in themselves, their partner and their relationship, there’s no reason to be jealous” and I couldn’t agree more. For me, jealousy is a major turn off. I didn’t always feel this way. When I was younger, I was extremely insecure. I was jealous of the door knob. But it’s been many years since I’ve felt that green eyed monster and what a freeing place it is! I look back on the young Rain and tsk over the lost experiences and jealousy that held me back, so happy to have shed that skin.
My own journey is leading me down some interesting and fun corridors… Stay tuned next week for Orgy #1, Part 2.
Episode 1 = the why.
Episode 2 = the how.
The Journey of Rain Star© - Written, Produced and Edited By Chloe Adler
This is the Journey of Rain Star - Chloe's alter ego who is on a mission to experience the sensual pleasures of life. Stay tuned for an episode a week and come live vicariously through Rain and her sexploits.